I finally got the guts to break up with him. He then got very weird. He started dating someone 1 week after we broke up. He went to all my friends with pictures of his new girl and talk about how wonderful she was.
Anyway to make a long story short, I moved away and blocked his email address. He has not found my new location and I have been spared his showing up unexpectedly.
However I am on LinkedIN. I have it open to anyone because I am looking for another job. On Linkedin one can moniter who has been looking at your profile. In the last 3 months I have repeatedly had my ex’s former co-workers (at his real job) look at my profile. These are not my friends nor do they have any interest in my field. I am also getting random people from Primerica looking at my resume. Previously nobody from Primerica was looking at it. None of these people contact me, but they are looking.
I do have people in my field looking at my profile and I have gotten two job offers from the site. So it is useful for me to keep my profile on the site. I was wondering if anyone else had this problem? Can a motivated person find your address from LinkedIN? Thirdly why would an mlm want to keep track of an ex-girlfriend?